Handfasting is an ancient Celtic tradition that has found new life in modern wedding ceremonies as a symbol of unity and commitment. Originating in Scotland, Ireland, and parts of Northern Europe, it was once a customary practice to signify a betrothal or temporary marriage agreement. Today, it is often chosen by couples who want to include a meaningful ritual that reflects their bond while honoring cultural or spiritual traditions.
During the handfasting ceremony, the couple’s hands are gently bound together with a ribbon or cord to represent the joining of two lives. This act is the origin of the phrase “tying the knot,” which is still commonly used to describe marriage. In contemporary ceremonies, handfasting is often adapted as a beautiful and inclusive ritual that fits seamlessly into both non-religious and multi-faith weddings. It is not only symbolic of unity but also of the couple’s willingness to enter into marriage with love, respect, and mutual commitment.
For this ceremony, a white ribbon will be used in the binding. White has long been associated with purity, sincerity, and new beginnings, making it a fitting choice for the couple’s first act of unity as partners in marriage. As the ribbon is wrapped around their hands, it creates a lasting image of two individuals coming together, joined by love, and ready to walk into the future as one.